The Ache For Happily-Ever-After

I was thinking about happily-ever-after…

The sermon series at our church has been themed on happily-ever-after. This week, in a dry tone, the pastor asked us to open to the last chapter, the last verse in the book of Cinderella… where we find that “they all lived happily ever after.” Then, he directed us to the last verse of the last chapter of Sleeping Beauty, where he assured us again that we’d find, “and they all lived happily ever after.” Following that we were to go to the last chapter of Snow White…

You can figure out the rest. The attention grabber (that’s what I call those things—I’m not sure of the technical term for such public speaking tactics) sparked an interesting question for me—one that actually distracted my author’s heart from the rest of the sermon (yikes! I know, I’m sorry.) Why do we write stories like that? Unrealistic expectations? Hopes that are really beyond reason? Why do I write stories like that?

I pondered that for a while. First answer? Don’t hate me—but it was “because it sells.” It’s the truth—but there’s got to be more, because that answer simply begs another question. Why does it sell? What is it about us that at least 90% of the time our hearts long for an HEA? It’s like, “I’m investing 6-10 hours of my precious free time in your story; you’d better deliver that HEA at the end!” Right?

Why do we long for that happily-ever-after?

Do you feel that ache_ (1)

It hit me somewhere in the middle of service.

“…He has put eternity into man’s heart…” (Eccl. 3:11, ESV)

That was an interesting place to land. I turned that verse over today, questioning the different angles, wondering if that thought had tipped the right direction.

We all long for our own Happily Ever After, don’t we? Why is that? It’s interesting, while at the beginning of that verse begins “He has made everything beautiful in it’s time,” it ends with “yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end.” Sandwiched in the middle we have this idea that God had placed the hope of eternity in our hearts.

Confused yet?

The Good News Version puts that verse like this: “He has set the right time for everything. He has given us a desire to know the future, but never gives us the satisfaction of fully understanding what he does.”

That future? What does it look like in your imagination? Can I guess?

Because HE put a longing for His Happily-Ever-After in our hearts.

Do you feel that ache? He put it there. That dream of more? His. For us. For you. For me.

It’s just not yet. Not the right time for that beautiful Happily-Ever-After. Yeah, we don’t get it. I’ll cry out in frustration—why is this not like what I hoped? But now there is this…

He makes everything beautiful in it’s time.

Do you feel that ache_ (2)

We’re just not there yet.

But in the end, we’ll live happily ever after, in a kingdom that will never end, with the King whose love will make all disappointments and sorrows and aching vanish. That Happily-Ever-After you’re still looking for?

It’s coming—and it won’t be the end. It’ll only be the beginning.

2 thoughts on “The Ache For Happily-Ever-After”

  1. Oh this is so beautiful. Thanks Jen. Never really thought about that.
    So thankful that our HEA will happen in Heaven if not before then. Thank you Lord for that promise

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